Friday, January 20, 2012

Random Recap

In an attempt to keep everyone somewhat up to date with our homeschool adventure, I will, with unpredictable regularity, give a recap wrap-up type thingy.

The arrival of Large & Medium’s math program and grammar curriculum last week helped me to get a better grasp on what they need to do each day. Rather than try to completely build their curriculum based solely on the Oceans Unit Study we’re doing, I decided to use Rod & Staff for their grammar. It is very old-school, but I kinda like that for some reason. Homeschooling for us so far is very much a “try it and see” approach. I’m eclectic in my fashion (or huge lack of), my hair (it’s normal to wear it styled differently every day, right?), the non-decoration of my home, so why should our school be any different?  I found the complete set consisting of teacher manual, student textbook, student workbook, and test  booklet for Medium, and the student text book for Large, all on the blessed Ebay. So far, what we've tried, I've liked, and I know they're learning, which is the whole point. For their math program, I went with Math U See, bought brand spankin’ new off the website, since the levels I needed were never on Ebay. Boo. It wasn’t cheap, but for each kid I got a teacher manual, student text/work book, and the best part for the math-challenged such as myself, an instructional DVD.

We have yet to establish a consistent daily routine but we’re only two weeks in, so I’m OK with that. The only thing that is very regular is I start the day reading a chapter from Proverbs from The Message translation, turn on the Keurig, and down my first cup of Donut Shop coffee with two sugars & some milk while the boys do their morning chores.  After that things aren't quite established. We try to do Bible as our first subject of the day, but since they aren’t always up and ready at the same time, sometimes I start whoever IS ready on a subject while the straggler finishes breakfast.

I usually settle Large and Medium into Math & Grammar as their second subject of the day. The one working on math gets the TV on, DVD at the right chapter, books ready in the living room while I start the other on that day’s grammar lesson at the front room table. Small has no established routine whatsoever , so I might start him on a simple addition page, a computer math game, a spelling lesson, toys in his room….whatever I decide or he starts playing with first.   The math kid and I watch the DVD together, practice a page on scratch paper, and then he works on a sheet to try the lesson on his own while I start my second cup of coffee and go back to check on grammar boy.  Unfortunately, this time which requires focus and concentration from both grammar boy and math kid, is usually peppered with constant interruptions from Small, who isn’t old enough to work independently for a long enough amount of time. He is accustomed to the routine of school, and to suddenly have so much free time again, like back in the good ol’ days of preschool, has just rocked his little world.

 Brothers are home, but can’t play? Mom is teacher, so he can’t ask out-of-the-blue questions when she’s sitting in the living room floor with brother?  Man! Not Cool! I must whine and roll around in the floor to pay her back!

After yelling  asking for the umpteenth time for him not to interrupt, I make sure both grammar boy and math kid have finished, then they swap subjects and places.  Sometime during the rest of the day they read from their novels while Morgan reads to me from his Bob books, I teach that day’s ocean lesson, go over the Spanish word of the day, and they play outside or on the trampoline in the shop if the weather is too cold or wet.  We have lunch, they do afternoon chores and “to earn” chores, and I sit on the couch eating a late lunch trying to make my eye stop twitching relax a little. Around now it will be time to pick up Girlie from public school, start dinner, and dreamily await my hubster’s return to the nest.

So. Are they ACTUALLY learning? What have we accomplished since we started two weeks ago, and with all of our books a week and a half ago? Well….

Large read 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea, completed 11 math lessons, 7 grammar lessons, wrote two short essays over ocean topics, took several ocean quizzes, and has started a Star Wars class for his brothers. (yeah, he enjoys this waaaaaay more than they do).

Medium is working his way through Moby Dick, has completed 10 math lessons, polished his lowercase cursive and learned the uppercase, breezed through  15 grammar lessons, two short ocean writings, two ocean quizzes, and has been given the requirement by his brothers that he wear pants during school time. His preference to skivvies-only apparently disrupts their thought processes.

Small has completed 7 spelling lessons, is reading the Bob books (little readers),  completed a review of letter writing upper and lower case, 11 math pages,  3 mazes, two color by number ocean coloring pages, and eaten countless boogers. We’re still working on losing THAT particular habit.

All three have learned 8 Spanish words, about life in a tidal pool, the different depths & zones oceans have (sunlit zone, twilight zone, abyssal etc), can name and label the 5 major oceans, the causes and effects of tsunamis, different ocean landscapes, watched Planet Earth & YouTube videos of sea birds diving deep to catch fish, and watched Planet Earth’s Coral Reef video.

See? See? They’re learning, right? 

Downing hot chocolate from the Keurig several times a day, taking longer and longer playtimes outside, riding bikes to Grandma’s for a cookie or Nana’s for a better lunch than whatever I’m offering have become their new normal.

And I’m thinking that is pretty Sweet!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Christmas Part Deaux

Tuesday, it was like Christmas!! Packages from Amazon, Math U See, and another book company finally arrived, all at the same time. Large's response to my excited squeals was that this was the stuff of Christmas nightmares, and that the only thing that could make it worse was if the boxes were filled with underwear too.

Well, fine then.

I'm a true blue book lover. For years I dreamed of owning a bookshop/ coffee house, but the closest I came was reading books about opening a bookshop (ah the irony), and writing a business plan. About that time, the economy headed south. God knew that wasn't the path that would be best for my family, and now I get to spend legitimate time researching books online, browsing Booksamillion and Barnes & Noble coffee scented aisles, and rekindling my love of libraries. Rather than asking myself, "What have I gotten myself into?", I keep thinking, " What took me so long to start homeschooling?"

Seriously.

Despite their difficulties focusing on the subjects at hand, we're all four really loving our little school. Prayers by the fire started our third day, with me, the very non-emotional chick, getting teary listening to their hearts being poured out with requests for people they knew with sicknesses, and thanks for me homeschooling. "Please help *** in surgery today." "Thank you for making *Bible class teacher*'s shoulder feel better.

Wipe eyes. Snort. Yep, got me right there.

I'm sure there will be days when I will want to lock the door behind them when they go outside so I can stress-eat a tub of cookie dough in peace. Until then, the Pillsbury Dough boy and his delicious bounty are safe.

Monday, January 9, 2012

And so it begins...

Unfortunately, it began at 5:22am.

That's when Medium decided to "see if it was time to start school yet??"
After a negative response was conveyed, he climbed into our bed and went back to sleep.  I managed to doze but never fully regained my preferred unconsciousness, which caused the entire first official day of homeschool to feel a little off kilter, to me at least.

Large & Small were up, dressed, and ready for school by 7am, which is way earlier than needed for their previous public school schedule, but they were truly excited. Fast forward three hours to 10am, and the excitement has started to wane a tad.

Medium is less than thrilled about completing two measely lessons on alphabetizing in his grammar book. Small has grown weary of his letter writing review. Large believes demonstrating his knowledge of long division is beneath him, even though he proceeds to spend an hour on one problem, giving a hearty oration on why he didn't need to "check his answer" with multiplication because, "I'm sure it's right."

Riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.

We did have moments of homeschooling bliss. Cooking breakfast together instead of throwing cold poptarts at them while screaming gently pointing out the few minutes until WE HAVE TO LEAVE!!  All three of us on the couch singing the Creation song, and discussing God's creation of the Ocean. Watching a youtube video of a Basking Shark because we saw a picture in a book and wondered if they ever ate people (they don't by the way).  Losing count of the amount of kisses Small gave me. Sweet baby.

The boys were easily distracted by each other, and the “newness” of everyone else’s books. Everything was funny, which is preferable to the usual “you’re SO ANNOYING” that flies out of their precious little mouths , but still made teaching very unbreezy-like.

The biggest success of the day was by far the chore chart, thanks to Jolanthe at www.homeschoolcreations.com.  I have always struggled with getting the kids to do daily tasks, and keeping them on track for helping around the house. Each kid has a chore chart with three morning chores, three afteroon chores, and three ‘paid’ chores to be completed everyday. The boys did ALL of their chores today, including dusting, vacuuming, folding laundry, picking up the living room, bathroom, hall, and bedrooms, feeding pets, and putting away clothes. One of my goals for homeschooling was to teach more personal responsibility, more real life skills and despite the fact that they probably only learned the names of the 5 major oceans today, I still declare our first day a WIN!

As I sit by the fire sipping Earl Grey, listening to the drone of a football game and my husband’s snoring gentle napping, I’m suddenly feeling not so off kilter, but full-on contentment. No one is arguing over the Playstation or complaining about homework. Tomorrow may bring more irritations over grammar lessons or math work, but the tons of kisses and lovins?

 No contest, I win.

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Not Back To School

We're homeschooling.

Whew!

After having kids in public schools for 6 1/2 years my husband and I made the biggest decision of our son's little lives....to pull them at semester, and for me to start homeschooling them in January.

HOLY MONKEY!

Yes, this decision was made after hours and hours of prayer. At times I wondered if God was thinking, "You again? Didn't you JUST ask for wisdom, for a clear answer on which path to take? Come on woman!"  I devoured anything I could on the internet. I read pros and cons of  homeschooling, both of which encouraged me to do it. Some articles on why people shouldn't homeschool actually reinforced my want to remove the kids from public schools. I quietly began talking to friends, old and new, that had embarked on this journey, and discovered what a wealth of information and encouragment they were. 

Halloween night, Husband and I were discussing yet another "issue" one of our sons was having to deal with at school. One of the recurring requests in my constant prayers was that IF homeschool was the best thing for our family, make Husband and I in complete agreement...let it be Husband's desire with no pushing from me, and that's exactly what happened. A simple statement came that Halloween night: "I think you should homeschool."  I replied, "I do too."

Decision Made. Path Clear. Joy and Contenment Abound. Harps Sound.

Ok, maybe not, but you get the idea.

We also decided against telling the  boys until closer  the end of the semester so they wouldn't a) stop doing school work  b) alienate their friends with their homeschool bragging and c) to give us time to mentally and physically prepare ourselves and our schedules. 

Big boys literally cried tears of joy when they were told, separately, at times of sadness and begging "don't make me go to school tomorrow".
Little brother was still on the fence. Kindergarten is fun, his friends are fun, his teacher is great... only reason to stay home is to be with Mom... which finally won out.

Today, when area kids were all heading back to school after Christmas break, we decided to celebrate our new found freedom with a Not Back To School Day. We went to Rogers, AR where I did the exciting task of exchanging some boots, before moving on to some of their favorite stores, Academy and Target, with lunch at Chick-fil-a. The weather was great, boys got along (most of the time), and I got a really really cute pair of boots. Score!